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Middle Spoon

by Alejandro Varela

Love, family, and the limits of convention

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Awards & Recognition

  • Editorial selection

    Lit Hub Must-Read Book of Fall 2025

    Named a Must-Read Book of Fall 2025 by Lit Hub.

  • Author recognition

    National Book Award finalist Alejandro Varela

    The metadata identifies Alejandro Varela as a National Book Award finalist; this is an author accolade, not an a...

  • Critical praise

    Praise from Ada Calhoun

    Calhoun calls the novel a rollicking delight and praises its questions about family and love.

AlbakiReads Editorial

Love, family, and the limits of convention

A husband and father with a boyfriend seems to have built a life that accommodates both family and romance—until the boyfriend ends the relationship. The breakup brings heartbreak into focus and sharpens the novel’s questions about how polyamorous relationships are understood and judged. Alongside intimacy and loss, the description points to social conventions and contemporary cultural touchstones, including pop culture and food habits, as part of the book’s wider inquiry into how people live and love. The story frames reinvention not as an abstract idea, but as a question facing someone whose existing family life and romantic hopes do not fit neatly within familiar expectations.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in fiction about polyamorous relationships and unconventional family life
  • Readers who enjoy novels that combine romantic heartbreak with social observation and humor
  • Readers curious about stories exploring intimacy, rejection, and reinvention

Themes

Polyamory and social judgmentFamily and unconventional loveHeartbreak and rejectionSocial conventions and reinvention

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Book overview

"Middle Spoon subverts the ordinary novel with intelligence and vulnerability. . . . Varela has made a sly, analytical opera of the heart." --Andrew Sean Greer, author of Less and Less Is Lost

"A rollicking delight! . . . Varela asks provocative questions about the shape of family and the nature of love." --Ada Calhoun, New York Times bestselling author of Crush

One of Today's 50 Books We Can't Wait to Read in 2025 - Named a Must-Read Book of Fall 2025 by Town & Country, Lit Hub, and W Magazine

A whip-smart, blazingly funny novel about heartbreak, unconventional love, and the way society could be, from National Book Award finalist Alejandro Varela


The narrator of Middle Spoon appears to be living the dream: He has a doting husband, two precocious children, all the comforts of a quiet bourgeois life--and a sexy younger boyfriend to accompany him to farmers markets and cocktail parties. But when his boyfriend abruptly dumps him, he spirals into heartbreak for the first time and must confront a world still struggling to understand polyamorous relationships. Faced with the judgment of friends and the sting of rejection, he's left to wonder if sharing a life with both his family and his lover could ever truly be possible.

With a big heart and just the right dose of the anxieties that define the modern era, Middle Spoon skewers the unspoken rules we still live by--from taboos around intimacy to the shortcomings of Oscar season, pop culture, and gluten-free food--offering a surprising perspective on love, loss, and reinvention. Equal parts heart-wrenching and uproariously funny, Middle Spoon is for anyone who has longed, nursed a broken heart, or grappled with love at its messiest.
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