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Middle Spoon

by Alejandro Varela

A family life with room for more than two

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Awards & Recognition

  • Award recognition

    Longlisted for the Joyce Carol Oates Prize

    Longlisted for the Joyce Carol Oates Prize.

  • Editorial selection

    One of TODAY’s 50 Books We Can’t Wait to Read in 2025

    Included among TODAY’s 50 Books We Can’t Wait to Read in 2025.

  • Critical praise

    Praise from Andrew Sean Greer

    Praise for the book: “Middle Spoon subverts the ordinary novel with intelligence and vulnerability. . . . Varela...

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A family life with room for more than two

A husband, two children, and a younger boyfriend form the narrator’s carefully balanced life—until the boyfriend ends the relationship. The breakup brings private heartbreak into contact with public assumptions about polyamory, while the novel also takes aim at familiar social rules and touches on pop culture, Oscar season, and gluten-free food. Alejandro Varela’s story frames love and loss through the tensions between an unconventional relationship and the expectations surrounding family life.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • For readers interested in fiction about polyamorous relationships and social expectations.
  • For readers seeking a family-life novel that combines heartbreak with comic observations about contemporary culture.

Themes

Polyamory and social judgmentFamily and intimacyHeartbreak and reinventionContemporary culture

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Book overview

"Middle Spoon subverts the ordinary novel with intelligence and vulnerability. . . . Varela has made a sly, analytical opera of the heart." --Andrew Sean Greer, author of Less and Less Is Lost

"A rollicking delight! . . . Varela asks provocative questions about the shape of family and the nature of love." --Ada Calhoun, New York Times bestselling author of Crush

Longlisted for the Joyce Carol Oates Prize - A Mother Jones Best Book of the Year - One of Today's 50 Books We Can't Wait to Read in 2025 - Named a Must-Read Book of Fall 2025 by Town & Country, W Magazine, and more

A whip-smart, blazingly funny novel about heartbreak, unconventional love, and the way society could be, from National Book Award finalist Alejandro Varela


The narrator of Middle Spoon appears to be living the dream: He has a doting husband, two precocious children, all the comforts of a quiet bourgeois life--and a sexy younger boyfriend to accompany him to farmers markets and cocktail parties. But when his boyfriend abruptly dumps him, he spirals into heartbreak for the first time and must confront a world still struggling to understand polyamorous relationships. Faced with the judgment of friends and the sting of rejection, he's left to wonder if sharing a life with both his family and his lover could ever truly be possible.

With a big heart and just the right dose of the anxieties that define the modern era, Middle Spoon skewers the unspoken rules we still live by--from taboos around intimacy to the shortcomings of Oscar season, pop culture, and gluten-free food--offering a surprising perspective on love, loss, and reinvention. Equal parts heart-wrenching and uproariously funny, Middle Spoon is for anyone who has longed, nursed a broken heart, or grappled with love at its messiest.
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