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The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love

by Bell Hooks

Masculinity, emotion, and the possibility of love

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    New York Times bestselling author

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Masculinity, emotion, and the possibility of love

bell hooks examines how patriarchal culture can shape men’s understanding of themselves and their capacity for intimacy. The book connects expectations around masculine power with the suppression of emotion, and considers how that suppression affects relationships as well as men themselves. Its discussion takes up fear of intimacy and anxiety about losing a patriarchal place in society, framing emotional openness as central to understanding love. The result is an argument about masculinity that places personal feeling within a wider social system, while asking what change might make more room for men to give and receive love.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Adults interested in feminist perspectives on masculinity and patriarchy.
  • Readers exploring men’s emotional lives, intimacy, and relationships.
  • Those interested in how social expectations shape personal experience.

Themes

Patriarchy and masculinityEmotional expression and repressionLove and intimacySocial expectations and personal change

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Book overview

From New York Times bestselling author, feminist pioneer, and cultural icon bell hooks, an evergreen treatise on how patriarchy and toxic masculinity hurts us all.

Feminist writing did not tell us about the deep inner misery of men.

Everyone needs to love and be loved--including men. But to know love, men must be able to look at the ways in which patriarchal culture keeps them from understanding themselves. In The Will to Change, bell hooks provides a compassionate guide for men of all ages and identities to understand how to be in touch with their feelings, and how to express versus repress the emotions that are a fundamental part of who we are.

With trademark candor and fierce intelligence, hooks addresses the most common concerns of men, such as fear of intimacy and loss of their patriarchal place in society, in new and challenging ways. The Will to Change "creates space for men to acknowledge their traumas and heal--not only for their sake, but for the sake of everyone in their lives" (BuzzFeed).
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