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What to Say: 12 Major Gift Asks to Get a YES

by Mary Petersen

Practical language for major-gift conversations

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Practical language for major-gift conversations

Mary Petersen’s guide is organized around 12 scripts for key moments in major-gift fundraising. Its examples address making an initial ask, naming an ambitious amount, responding to hesitation or silence, reconnecting with a lapsed donor, and discussing planned or multi-year gifts. The emphasis is on ready-to-use wording for donor meetings, making the book a hands-on resource centered on the conversation itself rather than fundraising theory or general frameworks.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Fundraisers preparing for major-gift conversations
  • New development directors seeking sample wording for donor asks
  • Experienced fundraisers who want scripts for specific donor situations

Themes

Major-gift fundraisingDonor communicationGift solicitationPlanned and multi-year giving

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Book overview

You know you should be asking for major gifts. You believe in the mission. You've done the cultivation. And then you get to the moment that matters and you freeze.

What to Say gives you the exact words.

Written by major gift expert Mary Petersen who has closed gifts up to nine figures and coached hundreds of fundraisers to do the same this book hands you 12 proven ask scripts for the most important, most feared moments in major gift fundraising. Not theory. Not frameworks. The actual sentences.

Inside, you'll find language for:

  • Making your first major gift ask with confidence
  • Asking for a specific, ambitious amount without apologizing for it
  • Navigating hesitation, silence, and "I need to think about it"
  • Re-engaging a lapsed donor who has gone quiet
  • Asking for a planned gift, a multi-year commitment, and more

Whether you're a seasoned fundraiser who freezes at the ask or a new development director trying to find your footing, What to Say will change the way you walk into donor meetings forever.

The words are right here. Now go use them.

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