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Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion

by Jia Tolentino

Essays on the forces shaping how we see ourselves

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Awards & Recognition

  • Award recognition

    Finalist for the National Book Critics Circle's John Leonard Prize for Best First Book

    Finalist for the John Leonard Prize for Best First Book.

  • Bestseller

    New York Times bestseller

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  • Book club selection

    Esquire Book Club pick for Now Read This

    Named an Esquire Book Club pick for Now Read This.

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Essays on the forces shaping how we see ourselves

Across nine essays, Jia Tolentino examines how contemporary culture can distort self-perception and make it difficult to understand our own motives. The subjects range from the social internet and scam culture to changing ideas of the literary heroine and the pressure to optimize bodies and everyday life. Together, these topics connect personal self-deception with broader systems of incentives: the book asks how cultural expectations shape what people want, value, and present as themselves. Its collection format allows each essay to approach that question through a different cultural lens, including online life, literature, and ideals of efficiency and beauty.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in cultural criticism and contemporary social life
  • Readers who enjoy essay collections linking personal identity with broader cultural forces
  • Readers interested in the internet, scam culture, literature, or ideals of self-optimization

Themes

Self-perception and self-deceptionSocial internet and scam cultureIdentity and cultural incentivesOptimization, efficiency, and beautyLiterary heroines

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Book overview

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER - "From The New Yorker's beloved cultural critic comes a bold, unflinching collection of essays about self-deception, examining everything from scammer culture to reality television."--Esquire

Book Club Pick for Now Read This, from PBS NewsHour and The New York Times - "A whip-smart, challenging book."--Zadie Smith - "Jia Tolentino could be the Joan Didion of our time."--Vulture


ONE OF BARACK OBAMA'S FAVORITE BOOKS OF THE YEAR - FINALIST FOR THE NATIONAL BOOK CRITICS CIRCLE'S JOHN LEONARD PRIZE FOR BEST FIRST BOOK - A KIRKUS REVIEWS BEST NONFICTION BOOK OF THE CENTURY - AN OPRAH DAILY BEST NONFICTION BOOK OF THE PAST TWO DECADES

NAMED ONE OF THE TEN BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY THE NEW YORK PUBLIC LIBRARY AND HARVARD CRIMSON AND ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY The New York Times Book Review, Time, Chicago Tribune, The Washington Post, NPR, Variety, Esquire, Vox, Elle, Glamour, GQ, Good Housekeeping, The Paris Review, Paste, Town & Country, BookPage, Kirkus Reviews, BookRiot, Shelf Awareness


Jia Tolentino is a peerless voice of her generation, tackling the conflicts, contradictions, and sea changes that define us and our time. Now, in this dazzling collection of nine entirely original essays, written with a rare combination of give and sharpness, wit and fearlessness, she delves into the forces that warp our vision, demonstrating an unparalleled stylistic potency and critical dexterity.

Trick Mirror is an enlightening, unforgettable trip through the river of self-delusion that surges just beneath the surface of our lives. This is a book about the incentives that shape us, and about how hard it is to see ourselves clearly through a culture that revolves around the self. In each essay, Tolentino writes about a cultural prism: the rise of the nightmare social internet; the advent of scamming as the definitive millennial ethos; the literary heroine's journey from brave to blank to bitter; the punitive dream of optimization, which insists that everything, including our bodies, should become more efficient and beautiful until we die. Gleaming with Tolentino's sense of humor and capacity to elucidate the impossibly complex in an instant, and marked by her desire to treat the reader with profound honesty, Trick Mirror is an instant classic of the worst decade yet.

FINALIST FOR THE PEN/DIAMONSTEIN-SPIELVOGEL AWARD FOR THE ART OF THE ESSAY
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