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This Is Not about Us: Fiction

by Allegra Goodman Publisher: DIAL PR

A family rift with repercussions across generations

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AlbakiReads Editorial

A family rift with repercussions across generations

After the death of their sister, Sylvia and Helen Rubinstein fall into a prolonged silence over a misunderstanding involving apple cake. The dispute sits alongside the changes unfolding in their wider family: divorces, new relationships, career setbacks, school applications, and the milestones of children and grandchildren. Allegra Goodman’s novel brings these strands together in a portrait of sibling connection, parental expectations, and the ways a family’s bonds persist through growing up and growing old. Its multigenerational scope makes a small domestic disagreement part of a larger story about family life.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in multigenerational family fiction
  • Readers drawn to stories about sisters and family conflict
  • Readers interested in the effects of parental expectations across generations

Themes

Sibling relationshipsFamily conflict and reconciliationParental expectationsGrowing up and growing oldIntergenerational bonds

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Book overview

NATIONAL BESTSELLER - A kaleidoscopic portrait of a modern American family--steadfast, complicated, begrudging, and loving--from the bestselling author of Isola

"Wise, witty . . . a deliciously readable book [about] the delicate minutiae of family life, played beautifully, boldly, brightly in a major key."--The New York Times Book Review (Editors' Choice)


"Goodman's mature and deftly written book suggests that, in family as in art, there is no such thing as uncomplicated happiness."--The Wall Street Journal

Was this just a brief skirmish, or the beginning of a thirty-year feud? In the Rubinstein family, it could go either way.

When their beloved sister passes away, Sylvia and Helen Rubinstein are unmoored. A misunderstanding about apple cake turns into a decade of stubborn silence. Busy with their own lives--divorces, dating, career setbacks, college applications, bat mitzvahs and ballet recitals--their children do not want to get involved. As for their grandchildren? Impossible.

With This Is Not About Us, master storyteller Allegra Goodman--whose prior collection was heralded as "one of the most astute and engaging books about American family life" (The Boston Globe)--returns to the form and subject that endeared her to legions of readers. Sharply observed and laced with humor, This Is Not About Us is a story of growing up and growing old, the weight of parental expectations, and the complex connection between sisters--a big-hearted book about the love that binds a family across generations.
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