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The Things We Never Say

by Elizabeth Strout Publisher: RANDOM HOUSE

Critically Recognized

A teacher confronts what remains unknown between people closest to him

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Awards & Recognition

  • Award recognition

    Booker Prize shortlisted

    Shortlisted for the Booker Prize.

  • Bestseller

    New York Times bestseller

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  • Editorial selection

    One of Barack Obama's favorite books of the summer

    Included among Barack Obama's favorite books of the summer.

AlbakiReads Editorial

A teacher confronts what remains unknown between people closest to him

Artie Dam’s outwardly settled life—teaching history, sharing routines with his wife, and sailing Massachusetts Bay—sits alongside a private sense of isolation. When he discovers a secret that unsettles his understanding of his life, he must reconsider the relationships he values and face how much can remain unspoken, even among those who share a home or years together. The novel connects this personal upheaval to broader questions about loneliness, human understanding, and the uncertainties that shape our lives. Its focus on a teacher’s daily world and his changing view of intimate relationships gives the story a grounded frame for those questions.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in fiction about marriage and long-standing relationships
  • Readers drawn to stories centered on isolation and human connection
  • Readers who enjoy novels about teachers and everyday life in Massachusetts

Themes

Isolation and connectionSecrets and understandingMarriage and relationshipsLife’s uncertainties

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Book overview

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER - In this "profound, resplendent novel"* from Pulitzer Prize-winning author Elizabeth Strout, a chance incident sparks a powerful realization in a beloved teacher's life.

SHORTLISTED FOR THE BOOKER PRIZE - ONE OF BARACK OBAMA'S FAVORITE BOOKS OF THE SUMMER

"Strout's capacious empathy and rigorous attention to the nuances of human behavior and psychology are as evident as ever."--The Boston Globe

"Artie Dam is someone you may never be able to forget."--Financial Times*

Artie Dam is living a double life. He spends his days teaching history to eleventh graders, expanding their young minds, correcting their casual cruelties, and lending a kind word to those who need it most. He goes to holiday parties with his wife of three decades, makes small talk with neighbors, and, on weekends, takes his sailboat out on the beautiful Massachusetts Bay. He is, by all appearances, present and alive. But inside, Artie is plagued by feelings of isolation. He looks out at a world gone mad--at himself and the people around him--and turns a question over and over in his mind: How is it that we know so little about one another, even those closest to us?

And then, one day, Artie learns that life has been keeping a secret from him, one that threatens to upend his entire world. Once he learns it, he is forced to chart a new course, to reconsider the relationships he holds most dear--and to make peace with the mysteries at the heart of our existence.

Elizabeth Strout, as we have come to expect, delivers a moving exploration of the human condition--one that brims with compassion for each and every one of her indelible characters. With exquisite prose and profound insight, The Things We Never Say takes one man's fears and loneliness and makes them universal. And in the same breath, captures the abiding love that sustains and holds us all.
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