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They're Going to Love You

by Meg Howrey

Art, ambition, and a family rupture across decades

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Awards & Recognition

  • Book club selection

    A Belletrist Book Club Pick

    Selected as a Belletrist Book Club pick.

  • Editorial selection

    A New Yorker Best Book of 2022

    Named a New Yorker Best Book of 2022.

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Art, ambition, and a family rupture across decades

Carlisle Martin’s childhood is divided between her mother’s ballet legacy and brief visits to the Greenwich Village home of her father, Robert, and his partner, James. There, James’s mentorship deepens her commitment to dance and her desire to belong to their world. Set against the AIDS crisis and extending to present-day Los Angeles, the novel connects that early longing with a family rift whose consequences persist for years. A later phone call prompts Carlisle to reconsider how the events of one summer shaped her adult life. The story brings together professional ballet, family ties, artistic ambition, and questions of forgiveness.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • For readers interested in fiction about professional ballet and the pursuit of an artistic life.
  • For readers drawn to family relationships shaped by long-running conflict and questions of belonging.
  • For readers interested in stories set across the AIDS crisis and the present day.

Themes

Artistic ambitionMentorshipFamily and belongingForgivenessThe AIDS crisis

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Book overview

A NEW YORKER BEST BOOK OF 2022 - A NEW YORK TIMES BEST BOOK OF THE MONTH - A BELLETRIST BOOK CLUB PICK - A gripping novel set in the world of professional ballet, New York City during the AIDS crisis, and present-day Los Angeles. - "Beautiful...[A] finger-trap puzzle of a plot."--New York Times Book Review

"They're Going to Love You is my idea of a perfect book. It is about art, life, death, love, and family and it is beautifully and sharply written. I cried several times while reading it, and was sorry to let it go when I was done. I cannot recommend it enough." --Jami Attenberg, New York Times bestselling author of The Middlesteins and All This Could Be Yours


Throughout her childhood, Carlisle Martin got to see her father, Robert, for only a few precious weeks a year when she visited the brownstone apartment in Greenwich Village he shared with his partner, James. Brilliant but troubled, James gave Carlisle an education in all that he held dear in life--literature, music, and, most of all, dance.

Seduced by the heady pull of mentorship and hoping to follow in the footsteps of her mother--a former Balanchine ballerina--Carlisle's aspiration to become a professional ballet dancer bloomed. But above all else, she longed to be asked to stay at the house on Bank Street, to be a part of Robert and James's sophisticated world, even as the AIDS crisis brings devastation to their community. Instead, a passionate love affair created a rift between the family, with shattering consequences that reverberated for decades to come. Nineteen years later, when Carlisle receives a phone call that unravels the events of that fateful summer, she sees with new eyes how her younger self has informed the woman she's become.

They're Going to Love You is a gripping and gorgeously written novel of heartbreaking intensity. With psychological precision and a masterfully revealed secret at its heart, it asks what it takes to be an artist in America, and the price of forgiveness, of ambition, and of love.
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