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Playing the Victim: How the Powerful Deny and Attack Survivors of Violence, from Domestic Abuse to Genocide

by Kylie Cheung

Tracing DARVO from intimate abuse to institutional power

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Tracing DARVO from intimate abuse to institutional power

Kylie Cheung uses DARVO—Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender—as a framework for examining how claims of victimhood can be used to silence people who report violence and justify control. The book connects patterns associated with domestic and intimate-partner abuse to broader political contexts, including the Gaza genocide, state control of women’s bodies, anti-feminist backlash, transphobic legislation, and racialized state violence. It also considers media propaganda, imperial warfare, and the Depp v. Heard case. Cheung’s argument links interpersonal and institutional forms of domination, asking how these tactics shape whose accounts are heard and how resistance is framed.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in DARVO and its relationship to domestic or intimate-partner abuse.
  • Readers exploring connections between interpersonal violence, political power, and state violence.
  • Readers interested in feminist, anti-colonial, and media-focused analysis of contemporary conflicts.

Themes

DARVO and victim-blamingDomestic and intimate-partner abusePolitical and state violenceMedia propaganda and powerResistance and the framing of crime

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Book overview

Journalist Kylie Cheung delivers an urgent, incisive look at how abusers--from empires to intimate partners--use the same gaslighting playbook to oppress victims, silence their voice, and stay in power

Who has the right to their own body? Who has the right to self-defense? Who gets to walk away?


From the genocide in Gaza to the state-sanctioned control of women's bodies, Kylie Cheung confronts the most urgent moral and political crises of our time through an incisive, illuminating lens: DARVO--Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender.

While DARVO originated in the psychology of domestic abuse and intimate partner violence, Cheung shows how it's deployed en masse, at every level--and how it can become the blueprint for empire itself.

From the spectacle of Depp v. Heard to horrors perpetrated by Israeli prison guards, Cheung exposes how abusers both individual and institutional flip the script and perform victimhood to justify domination. With unflinching clarity, Playing the Victim traces how these tactics shape everything from media propaganda and imperial warfare to anti-feminist backlash, transphobic legislation, and racialized state violence. Each chapter peels back another layer of the mirror-world machine that distorts oppressors into victims and twists resistance into crime.

Essential for anyone seeking to understand how power works in the 21st century--and at whose cost--this book is piercing, clear-eyed, and rigorously researched. Unpacking how domestic abuse, intimate partner violence, colonial violence, and capitalist cruelty function as interlocking systems of control, Cheung helps readers understand how power hides behind ersatz victimhood--and how this plays us all.
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