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The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power

by Katherine Morgan Schafler Publisher: PORTFOLIO

A framework for working with perfectionism

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Awards & Recognition

  • Editorial selection

    Amazon Editor's Pick: Best Books of 2023

    Editor's Pick in Amazon's Best Books of 2023

AlbakiReads Editorial

A framework for working with perfectionism

Katherine Morgan Schafler reframes perfectionism as something to understand and manage, not simply eliminate. The book presents five profiles—classic, intense, Parisian, messy, and procrastinator—and uses them to organize advice on how different forms of perfectionism can work for or against a person. Its self-help approach also questions the familiar call to “find balance,” addressing women who want to pursue ambition without treating that desire as a failing. The central distinction is between superficial control and what Schafler describes as real power, making the book’s focus both practical and reflective: recognizing one’s patterns, then considering how to relate to them differently.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Women who feel conventional advice to “find balance” does not speak to their ambitions.
  • People interested in identifying patterns of perfectionism through a named set of profiles.
  • Readers seeking self-help guidance on managing perfectionism rather than trying to eliminate it.

Themes

Perfectionism and self-understandingAmbition and controlManaging personal patterns

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Book overview

Selected for USA Today's Best Books of 2023

Selected as Editor's Pick in Amazon's Best Books of 2023

From psychotherapist Katherine Morgan Schafler, an invitation to every "recovering perfectionist" to challenge the way they look at perfectionism, and the way they look at themselves.


We've been looking at perfectionism all wrong. As psychotherapist and former on-site therapist at Google Katherine Morgan Schafler argues in The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control, you don't have to stop being a perfectionist to be healthy. For women who are sick of being given the generic advice to "find balance," a new approach has arrived.

Which of the five types of perfectionist are you? Classic, intense, Parisian, messy, or procrastinator? As you identify your unique perfectionist profile, you'll learn how to manage each form of perfectionism to work for you, not against you. Beyond managing it, you'll learn how to embrace and even enjoy your perfectionism. Yes, enjoy!

Full of stories and brimming with humor, empathy, and depth, this book is a love letter to the ambitious, high achieving, full-of-life clients who filled the author's private practice, and who changed her life. It's a clarion call for all women to dare to want more without feeling greedy or ungrateful. Ultimately, this book will show you how to make the single greatest trade you'll ever make in your life, which is to exchange superficial control for real power.
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