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Off Ramp: How to Be a Peacemaker in an Age of Contempt

by Spencer Cox

A practical case for disagreeing without contempt

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Awards & Recognition

  • Critical praise

    Jonathan Haidt calls the book astonishing

    Haidt calls the book astonishing and describes it as a memoir, social science, and civic intervention.

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A practical case for disagreeing without contempt

Spencer Cox brings together his experience in civic leadership and research on depolarization to address how political hostility shapes everyday and public life. The book moves across familiar points of friction—from family conversations and social media to national politics—and presents peacemaking as shared civic work. Its starting point is Cox’s 2025 address after Charlie Kirk’s assassination; from there, it makes the case for rebuilding respect across political divides and reconsidering the rhetoric and behaviors that deepen them. The approaching 250th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence gives the argument an explicitly American frame.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • People interested in political polarization and civic life
  • Readers seeking practical approaches to disagreement in personal and online settings
  • Those interested in the role of political leadership in depolarization

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Political polarizationPeacemaking and disagreementCivic leadershipPolitical rhetoric and violence

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Book overview

"Cox's book is worth reading for anyone who loves politics but hates what it has become." --Jonathan Martin, POLITICO

"A gripping account of a moment that changed the country--and a reminder of just how far we still have to go to find our way back." --The Free Press

"Off Ramp is an astonishing book. [It is], at the same time, a memoir, a work of deep social science, and a civic intervention." --Jonathan Haidt, New York Times bestselling author of The Anxious Generation

Utah Governor Spencer Cox's practical guide to depolarization teaches us how to disagree better at the dinner table, on social media, and in American politics, with a foreword by Jonathan Haidt


In September 2025, following the assassination of Charlie Kirk, Governor Spencer Cox stood at a podium and addressed a fractured and grieving nation.

He urged Americans to find a way to stop hating one another, or--at the very least, he said--to stop shooting each other. His words were balm to a nation desperate for an off ramp from rising political violence.

But a single speech cannot transform a country. It takes all of us working together. It takes a blueprint for healing, depolarization, and peacemaking.

Off Ramp is that blueprint.

In this practical and patriotic guide, Governor Cox pulls from his experience at the highest levels of civic leadership and cutting-edge depolarization research to encourage Americans to disagree better and restore the respect that we once had even for our political rivals. As America approaches the 250th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence, it's time to remember what makes America strong, and leave behind the behaviors and rhetoric that threaten to destroy us.
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