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Mate

by Tucker Max

A self-development guide to dating

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A self-development guide to dating

Mate frames dating as a process that begins with personal change: its central advice is to build self-awareness, honesty, and a stronger sense of self, then communicate that version of yourself to potential partners. Tucker Max and Geoffrey Miller draw on research they say they have gathered over more than two decades, organizing the book as a practical guide to romantic and sexual relationships. The description presents self-improvement as demanding work, not a quick fix, and positions the book around understanding attraction and developing more effective ways to pursue relationships.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Men interested in practical guidance on dating and relationships
  • Readers curious about advice that connects self-development with attraction

Themes

Dating and attractionSelf-awareness and personal growthRomantic and sexual relationships

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Book overview

Whether they conducted their research in life or in the lab, experts Tucker Max and Geoffrey Miller have spent the last 20+ years learning what women really want from their men, why they want it, and how men can deliver it.

The short answer: become the best version of yourself possible, then show it off. It sounds simple, but it's not. If it were, Tinder would just be the stuff you use to start a fire. Becoming your best self requires honesty, self-awareness, hard work, and a little help.

Through their website and podcast, Max and Miller have already helped more than one million guys take their first steps toward Ms. Right. They have collected all of their findings in Mate, an evidence- driven, seriously funny playbook that will teach you how to become a more sexually attractive and romantically successful man, the right way

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