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Of Loss and Lavender

by Sinan Antoon

Memory, exile, and the search for a new life

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Awards & Recognition

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    A Best Book of the Year So Far by The New Yorker

    Named a Best Book of the Year So Far by The New Yorker.

AlbakiReads Editorial

Memory, exile, and the search for a new life

Sinan Antoon’s novel brings together two Iraqi men whose lives in the United States are shaped by different legacies of the Gulf War. Sami, a retired doctor in Brooklyn, faces dementia as memories of prewar Iraq become more prominent. Omar, living under a false identity, moves between jobs and places while hoping to repair the injury that marks his past as a deserter. Their stories converge around questions of displacement, identity, and how war continues to shape life after relocation. Brooklyn, Detroit, and a New Jersey farm give the novel a varied American setting, while its two central perspectives connect private struggles with the broader experience of exile.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in fiction about Iraqi lives and displacement in the United States.
  • Readers drawn to stories that explore memory, dementia, and the aftermath of war.

Themes

Exile and relocationMemory and dementiaWar’s lasting consequencesIdentity and dignity

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Book overview

A Best Book of the Year So Far by The New Yorker

In this achingly beautiful novel of trauma, memory, and identity, two Iraqi men struggle to start a new life in the United States after the Gulf War.


Sami, a retired doctor, lives with his son and grandchildren in Brooklyn. As he tries to navigate this new city, it becomes increasingly clear he is losing his memory due to dementia. Every day he sinks deeper into old memories of a life in Iraq before the war.

Omar arrived in the US with no family. He has run away from Baghdad with a fake identity. As a deserter, he was punished by having an ear cut off, an unmissable mark of shame. From Detroit to a farm in New Jersey, Omar works menial jobs, creates a new identity--comically passing as Puerto Rican--and dreams of reconstructive surgery to get his ear, and his dignity, back.

As their stories unexpectedly converge Of Loss and Lavender creates a moving portrait of life in exile, deftly exploring the aftermath of war and relocation.
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