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I'm the Girl Who Was Raped

by Michelle Hattingh

A survivor’s story beyond the statistics

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AlbakiReads Editorial

A survivor’s story beyond the statistics

Michelle Hattingh’s memoir connects her academic work on how rape victims are perceived in Cape Town with her own experience of sexual violence. After she and a friend are raped on the night Hattingh receives her degree, the account traces the effects on her sense of self and on friendships, work, and encounters with police and doctors. Her family’s support and the resources available to her sit alongside the harms she describes, giving the book a personal frame for examining gender-based violence and its aftermath. The narrative is presented as an effort to reclaim body, identity, and a future beyond the violence.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in memoirs about surviving sexual violence and its aftermath
  • Readers seeking personal perspectives on gender-based violence in South Africa
  • Readers interested in the social treatment and perception of rape survivors

Themes

Sexual violence and its aftermathSurvivor identity and selfhoodGender-based violence in South AfricaSocial responses to rape survivors

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Book overview

"A woman born in South Africa has a greater chance of being raped than learning how to read."


So begins Michelle Hattingh's presentation for her Psychology honors thesis. For years, she has studied the perception of rape victims in her home city of Cape Town, one of the world's capitals of gender-based violence. But on the night she receives her degree, Michelle and a friend are raped on the beach.


Despite the support from her loving middle-class family and many resources at her disposal, Michelle's identity is eclipsed by the horrors of that night. By the taint she feels. By the fallout of friendships and jobs, and her harrowing treatment from police and doctors.


I'm The Girl Who Was Raped is Michelle's reclamation of body, selfhood, and future. This urgent and myth-shattering debut memoir is the battle cry of a survivor--and an invitation to look beyond statistics to the women, daughters, friends, artists, and leaders who refuse to let abusers define them.

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