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How Should a Person Be?: A Novel from Life

by Sheila Heti

Questions of love, art, and becoming a person

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Awards & Recognition

  • Editorial selection

    Chosen by The New York Times book critics as one of 15 remarkable books by women shaping 21st-century reading and writing

    Selected as one of fifteen remarkable books by women shaping how people read and write in the 21st century.

  • Critical praise

    Praised by David Haglund in The New York Times Book Review as “odd, original, and nearly unclassifiable”

    Described as funny, odd, original, nearly unclassifiable, and unlike any novel the reviewer could think of.

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Questions of love, art, and becoming a person

Framed as a novel “from life,” Sheila Heti’s book combines literary fiction with elements of self-help and an exploration of artistic and sexual impulses. Its central concerns include female friendship, the choices that shape a life, and the search for a way to love well. The description presents these questions through one woman’s reflections on her heart and mind, giving the book a form that crosses between personal inquiry and fiction.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in literary fiction that blends forms with self-help or personal inquiry
  • Readers curious about fiction exploring female friendship, love, and artistic life

Themes

Female friendshipLove and personal ethicsArtistic and sexual impulseSelf-knowledge and identity

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Book overview

Chosen as one of fifteen remarkable books by women that are shaping the way we read and write in the 21st century by the book critics of The New York Times.

Named a Book of the Year by The New York Times Book Review, The New Yorker, San Francisco Chronicle, Salon, Flavorpill, The New Republic, The New York Observer, The Huffington Post.

"Funny . . . odd, original, and nearly unclassifiable . . . unlike any novel I can think of."

--David Haglund, The New York Times Book Review

"Brutally honest and stylistically inventive, cerebral, and sexy."
--San Francisco Chronicle

By turns loved and reviled upon its U.S. publication, Sheila Heti's "breakthrough novel" (Chris Kraus, Los Angeles Review of Books) is an unabashedly honest and hilarious tour through the unknowable pieces of one woman's heart and mind. Part literary novel, part self-help manual, and part vivid exploration of the artistic and sexual impulse, How Should a Person Be? earned Heti comparisons to Henry Miller, Joan Didion, Mary McCarthy, and Flaubert, while shocking and exciting readers with its raw, urgent depiction of female friendship and of the shape of our lives now. Irreverent, brilliant, and completely original, Heti challenges, questions, frustrates, and entertains in equal measure. With urgency and candor she asks: What is the most noble way to love? What kind of person should you be?

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