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How to Lose Your Mother: A Daughter's Memoir

by Molly Jong-Fast

A daughter’s account of family, illness, and adulthood

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    New York Times bestseller

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    Praised by The Washington Post

    The Washington Post praises the memoir's humor, perspective, and transformative effect.

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A daughter’s account of family, illness, and adulthood

Molly Jong-Fast’s memoir places a long, complicated mother-daughter relationship alongside a year of overlapping upheavals. Her mother, writer Erica Jong, was a celebrated public figure whose attention often seemed elsewhere as Molly grew up seeking a closer connection. In 2023, Erica’s dementia diagnosis coincided with the discovery that Jong-Fast’s husband had a rare cancer, bringing childhood questions into the pressures of adult life. The book draws together family history, a famous literary household, and the experience of confronting loss while navigating new responsibilities.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in memoirs about complicated parent-child relationships.
  • Readers seeking personal accounts of dementia and family caregiving challenges.
  • Readers interested in the intersection of literary family history and adult life crises.

Themes

Mother-daughter relationshipsDementia and lossChildhood and family historyFame and literary lifeAdulthood under pressure

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Book overview

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

"With propulsive humor and perspective on her annus horribilis, Jong-Fast achieves the memoir's transformative work of alchemy, arming us all with lines so good you won't just want to underline them, you will want to cut them out to share." --The Washington Post

"This raw, intimate memoir is a stunning portrait of difficult relationships and how we survive them." --People

"Molly Jong-Fast's memoir is mesmerizing, intimate, wise, unputdownable, crazily honest, heartbreaking, funny, illuminating--beautiful and painful at the same time, just like real life." --Anne Lamott

From the political writer and podcaster, a ferociously honest and disarmingly funny memoir about her elusive mother's encroaching dementia and a reckoning with her complicated childhood


Molly Jong-Fast is the only child of a famous woman, writer Erica Jong, whose sensational book Fear of Flying launched her into second-wave feminist stardom. She grew up yearning for a connection with her dreamy, glamorous, just out of reach mother, who always seemed to be heading somewhere that wasn't with Molly. When, in 2023, Erica was diagnosed with dementia just as Molly's husband discovered he had a rare cancer, Jong-Fast was catapulted into a transformative year.

How to Lose Your Mother is a compulsively readable memoir about an intense mother-daughter relationship, a sometimes chaotic upbringing with a fame-hungry parent, and the upheavals that challenge our hard-won adulthood. A pitch-perfect balance of acceptance and rage, humor and heart, How to Lose Your Mother tells a universal story of loss alongside a singular story of a literary life. This is a memoir that will stand alongside the classics of the genre.
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