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How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self

by Nicole Lepera

A self-guided framework for recognizing patterns

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    #1 New York Times bestseller

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A self-guided framework for recognizing patterns

Nicole LePera brings together mental, physical, and spiritual wellness in a guide to understanding how earlier experiences can shape adult habits and relationships. The book addresses patterns including codependency, emotional immaturity, and trauma bonds, and connects them to stress responses and the body. Its practical emphasis is on noticing limiting beliefs and behaviors, building self-awareness and emotional resilience, and developing habits aligned with one’s sense of self. The approach is presented as a set of tools for self-directed change and care, drawing on research and a range of healing practices.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Adults interested in self-help approaches to mental wellness and self-care.
  • Readers exploring how childhood experiences may affect adult relationships and behavior.
  • People seeking exercises or tools for self-awareness, emotional resilience, and habit change.

Themes

Childhood experiences and adult patternsInterpersonal relationshipsMind-body wellnessSelf-awareness and emotional resilienceHabit change

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Book overview

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER - INSTANT INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER

From Dr. Nicole LePera, creator of "the holistic psychologist"--the online phenomenon with more than two million Instagram followers--comes a revolutionary approach to healing that harnesses the power of the self to produce lasting change.

As a clinical psychologist, Dr. Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients--and for herself--she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical, and spiritual wellness that equips people with the mind-body healing tools necessary to heal themselves. After experiencing the life-changing results herself, she began to share what she'd learned with others--and soon "The Holistic Psychologist" was born.

Now, Dr. LePera is ready to share her much-requested protocol with the world. In How to Do the Work, she offers both a manifesto for self healing as well as an essential guide to breaking negative patterns and creating a more vibrant, authentic, and joyful life. Drawing on the latest research from a diversity of scientific fields and healing modalities, Dr. LePera helps us recognize how adverse experiences and trauma in childhood live with us, resulting in whole body dysfunction--activating harmful stress responses that keep us stuck engaging in patterns of codependency, emotional immaturity, and trauma bonds. Unless addressed, these self-sabotaging behaviors can quickly become cyclical, leaving people feeling unhappy, unfulfilled, and unwell.

In How to Do the Work, Dr. LePera offers readers the support and tools that will allow them to break free from destructive behaviors to reclaim and recreate their lives. Nothing short of a paradigm shift, this is a celebration of empowerment that will forever change the way we approach mental wellness and self-care.

How can you harness the power of the self to produce lasting change?

This Book Will Help You...

  • Identify and break free from limiting beliefs and behaviors
  • Understand how childhood trauma shapes your adult life
  • Heal your nervous system and reconnect with your body
  • Build emotional resilience and self-awareness
  • Create conscious habits that align with your authentic self
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