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Grief Is Love: Living with Loss

by Marisa Renee Lee

Making space for grief

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    Praise from Kirkus Reviews

    Kirkus Reviews describes the book as “a humanizing exploration of coping with the life-changing tides of loss.”

AlbakiReads Editorial

Making space for grief

Marisa Renee Lee challenges the idea that healing requires leaving a loved one behind or following a set timetable. She frames grief as an ongoing bond, and considers how acknowledging its complicated feelings can make room for life to change after loss. Alongside guidance for people grieving recent or long-ago losses, Lee draws on her own experiences of bereavement, including the loss of her mother, a pregnancy, and a cousin during the COVID-19 pandemic. The book also examines grief’s particular impact on Black people and identifies permission, care, feeling, and grace among the elements it says healing requires.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • People navigating a recent or long-ago bereavement
  • Readers seeking guidance that questions fixed stages or timelines for grief
  • Readers interested in how grief affects Black people

Themes

Grief and continuing bondsHealing without fixed timelinesPersonal loss and transformationBlack experiences of griefPermission, care, and self-compassion

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Book overview

A trusted grief expert shares advice on how to navigate the loss of a loved one in this incisive and compassionate guide.

"Calm, lucid prose... a humanizing exploration of coping with the life-changing tides of loss" --Kirkus Reviews

In Grief is Love, author Marisa Renee Lee reveals that healing does not mean moving on after losing a loved one--healing means learning to acknowledge and create space for your grief. It is about learning to love the one you lost with the same depth, passion, joy, and commitment you did when they were alive, perhaps even more. She guides you through the pain of grief--whether you've lost the person recently or long ago--and shows you what it looks like to honor your loss on your unique terms, and debunks the idea of a grief stages or timelines.

Grief is Love is about making space for the transformation that a significant loss requires. In beautiful, compassionate prose, Lee elegantly offers wisdom about what it means to authentically and defiantly claim space for grief's complicated feelings and emotions. And Lee is no stranger to grief herself, she shares her journey after losing her mother, a pregnancy, and, most recently, a cousin to the COVID-19 pandemic. These losses transformed her life and led her to question what grief really is and what healing actually looks like.

In this book, she also explores the unique impact of grief on Black people and reveals the key factors that proper healing requires: permission, care, feeling, grace and more. The transformation we each undergo after loss is the indelible imprint of the people we love on our lives, which is the true definition of legacy.

At its core, Grief is Love explores what comes after death, and shows us that if we are able to own and honor what we've lost, we can experience a beautiful and joyful life in the midst of grief.
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