Home › Bestsellers › Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition
  • Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition by Harville Hendrix book cover
  • Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition by Harville Hendrix book cover
1 2

Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples: Third Edition

by Harville Hendrix

A guide to patterns and connection in couples’ relationships

Bestseller
$18.74 USD
$31.24 USD $18.74 USD
Save 40%

Paperback New

Delivery to your door
In stock·Dispatches in 1–2 business days
Standard shipping* from $4.35
Standard shipping transit* 5–8 business days after dispatch

Faster options are available.

Rates and delivery estimates depend on your destination and item quantity. Estimates are informational only; the final shipping method and rate are selected at checkout.
Secure checkout
American Express Apple Pay DiscoverGoogle Pay Mastercard PayPalVisa
30-day eligible returns Returns & refunds policy

Awards & Recognition

  • Bestseller

    New York Times bestseller

AlbakiReads Editorial

A guide to patterns and connection in couples’ relationships

Harville Hendrix’s guide approaches intimate relationships through several frameworks, including behavioral science, depth psychology, social learning theory, Gestalt therapy, and interpersonal neuroscience. Its subjects range from the reasons partners choose one another and the power struggles that can limit intimacy to listening, shared visions, and changing patterns of interaction. The book also connects present-day relationship habits with early childhood experiences, presenting new behaviors as part of that exploration. This third edition is described as revised, with a new foreword and an additional chapter.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Couples interested in exploring recurring patterns in their relationship
  • Readers seeking relationship guidance that draws on psychological and behavioral frameworks
  • Partners interested in improving communication, intimacy, and shared goals

Themes

Intimacy and communicationRelationship patterns and conflictEarly childhood experiencesShared goals and companionship

Based on publisher information and book metadata.

Book overview

TheNew York Times bestselling guide to transforming an intimate relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship, now fully revised with a new forward and a brand new chapter.

Getting the Love You Want has helped millions of people experience more satisfying relationships and is recommended every day by professional therapists and happy couples around the world. Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt explain how to revive romance and remove negativity from daily interactions, to help you:

- Discover why you chose your mate
- Resolve the power struggle that prevents greater intimacy
- Learn to listen - really listen - to your partner
- Increase fun and laughter in your relationship
- Begin healing early childhood experiences by stretching into new behaviors
- Become passionate friends with your partner
- Achieve a common vision of your dream relationship

Become the most connected couple you know with this revolutionary guide, combining behavioral science, depth psychology, social learning theory, Gestalt therapy, and interpersonal neuroscience to help you and your partner recapture joy, enhance closeness, and experience the reward of a deeply fulfilling relationship.

Shipping & returnsShipping options, delivery timing, and our return policy.

In-stock items normally dispatch within 1–2 business days. The ZIP-code estimator on this page is informational only; the final shipping method, price, and availability are confirmed at checkout for your full order.

For the initial delivery estimate we use these transit windows after dispatch: Standard 5–8 business days, Expedited 2–4 business days, and Priority 1–2 business days. Holiday delays are not included.

Eligible items can be returned within 30 days in accordance with our return policy.

Customer reviews

M
AlbakiReads
Malaika Taylor

I highly recommend to for anyone looking for inner clarity

T
AlbakiReads
Thomas DiMassa

Great service and fast service

E
AlbakiReads
Ella

Great shopping experience! The book arrived quickly, was well packaged, and matched the description perfectly. I would definitely shop with you again

O
AlbakiReads
Olivia

Smooth.