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Find Your People: Building Deep Community in a Lonely World

by Jennie Allen

Practical guidance for building community

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Awards & Recognition

  • Award recognition

    Winner of the ECPA Book of the Year Award

  • Bestseller

    New York Times bestseller

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Practical guidance for building community

Jennie Allen frames loneliness as a challenge of connection and offers a Christian living guide to forming deeper relationships. The book combines personal stories with material drawn from science, history, and biblical teaching, then turns to practical topics: initiating friendships, moving from awkward conversation toward openness, and handling conflict within relationships. It also asks readers to consider the kinds of friends they are and need, and outlines five ingredients for the community Allen advocates. The emphasis is on taking concrete steps toward connection, with friendship and shared life treated as practices that can be cultivated.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Adults seeking practical guidance on making and deepening friendships
  • Readers interested in Christian perspectives on community and relationships
  • Those exploring loneliness, conversation, and conflict in friendships

Themes

Loneliness and belongingFriendship and communityCommunication and vulnerabilityConflict in relationshipsChristian living

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Book overview

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER - WINNER OF THE ECPA BOOK OF THE YEAR AWARD - The author of Get Out of Your Head offers practical solutions for creating true community, the kind that's crucial to our mental and spiritual health.

"My dear friend Jennie Allen shows us how to make true emotional connections with the right people so that our authentic relationships can be healthy for all."--Lysa TerKeurst, author of It's Not Supposed to Be This Way

In a world that's both more connected and more isolating than ever before, we're often tempted to do life alone, whether because we're so busy or because relationships feel risky and hard. But science confirms that consistent, meaningful connection with others has a powerful impact on our well-being. We are meant to live known and loved. But so many are hiding behind emotional walls that we're experiencing an epidemic of loneliness.

In Find Your People, bestselling author Jennie Allen draws on fascinating insights from science and history, timeless biblical truth, and vulnerable stories from her own life to help you:

- overcome the barriers to making new friends and learn to initiate with easy-to-follow steps
- find simple ways to press through awkward to get to authentic in conversations
- understand how conflict can strengthen relationships rather than destroy them
- identify the type of friend you are and the types of friends you need
- learn the five practical ingredients you need to have the type of friends you've always longed for

You were created to play, engage, adventure, and explore--with others. In Find Your People, you'll discover exactly how to dive into the deep end and experience the full wonder of community. Because while the ache of loneliness is real, it doesn't have to be your reality.
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