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Dancing at the Pity Party

by Tyler Feder Publisher: DIAL

Critically Recognized

Grief in the everyday and the milestones

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Awards & Recognition

  • Critical praise

    School Library Journal starred review

    School Library Journal gave the book a starred review, describing the graphic memoir as equal parts celebration,...

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Grief in the everyday and the milestones

Tyler Feder’s graphic memoir traces a mother’s cancer diagnosis during her daughter’s first year of college, then follows the experience through the funeral, shiva week, and the early reality of life without her. Its scope includes the awkward firsts after a death and feelings that can be difficult to discuss, alongside the ways loss can shape life over time. The graphic-novel format frames this account as both personal memoir and reflection on grief, with humor included in its portrayal of a painful period.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Teens and young adults interested in graphic memoirs about family and loss
  • Readers seeking a personal account of grief and life after a parent’s death

Themes

Grief and bereavementMother-daughter relationshipsCancer and lossLife after a parent’s death

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Book overview

Part poignant memoir and part "cathartic and uplifting" (Kirkus Reviews) reflection on a motherless life, this graphic novel is extraordinarily comforting and engaging.

"Offers a wealth of perspective about coping with grief."--Publishers Weekly, starred review

"Equal parts celebration, reflection, and mourning, this graphic memoir touches on the unpredictable path of grief."--School Library Journal, starred review

Tyler Feder had just white-knuckled her way through her first year of college when her super cool mom was diagnosed with late-stage cancer. Now, with a decade of grief and nervous laughter under her belt, Tyler shares the story of that gut-wrenching, heart-pounding, extremely awkward time in her life--from her mom's first oncology appointment to her funeral and shiva week through the beginning of facing reality as a motherless daughter. She shares the sting of loss that never goes away, the uncomfortable post-death firsts, and the deep-down, hard-to-talk-about feelings of the grieving process--but also the ways a premature death of a loved one can eventually enrich your life.

Dancing at the Pity Party
is a frank and refreshingly funny look at what it's like to grieve--for anyone struggling with loss who just wants someone to get it.
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