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The Course of Love

by Alain De Botton

Love beyond the first flush

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Awards & Recognition

  • Editorial selection

    People Best New Books pick

    Named a Best New Books pick by People.

  • Critical praise

    Praised by The New York Times

    The New York Times praises the novel as a return to the form that made de Botton's name and commends its treatme...

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Love beyond the first flush

Set in Edinburgh, the novel follows Rabih and Kirsten from falling in love through marriage and family life, asking what sustains a partnership once its early excitement gives way to ordinary pressures. Their story is interwoven with philosophical commentary that frames its challenges and considers how romantic ideals meet lived experience. The structure brings the couple’s relationship and reflections on love into conversation, making long-term partnership—not courtship alone—the book’s central subject.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • For readers interested in fiction about marriage, family life, and the changing stages of a relationship.
  • For readers who appreciate philosophical reflection woven into a romantic narrative.

Themes

Long-term loveMarriage and familyRomantic ideals and everyday lifePhilosophy of love

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Book overview

"An engrossing tale [that] provides plenty of food for thought" (People, Best New Books pick), this playful, wise, and profoundly moving second novel from the internationally bestselling author of How Proust Can Change Your Life tracks the beautifully complicated arc of a romantic partnership. We all know the headiness and excitement of the early days of love. But what comes after? In Edinburgh, a couple, Rabih and Kirsten, fall in love. They get married, they have children--but no long-term relationship is as simple as "happily ever after." The Course of Love explores what happens after the birth of love, what it takes to maintain, and what happens to our original ideals under the pressures of an average existence. We see, along with Rabih and Kirsten, the first flush of infatuation, the effortlessness of falling into romantic love, and the course of life thereafter. Interwoven with their story and its challenges is an overlay of philosophy--an annotation and a guide to what we are reading. As The New York Times says, "The Course of Love is a return to the form that made Mr. de Botton's name in the mid-1990s....love is the subject best suited to his obsessive aphorizing, and in this novel he again shows off his ability to pin our hopes, methods, and insecurities to the page." This is a Romantic novel in the true sense, one interested in exploring how love can survive and thrive in the long term. The result is a sensory experience--fictional, philosophical, psychological--that urges us to identify deeply with these characters and to reflect on his and her own experiences in love. Fresh, visceral, and utterly compelling, The Course of Love is a provocative and life-affirming novel for everyone who believes in love. "There's no writer alive like de Botton, and his latest ambitious undertaking is as enlightening and humanizing as his previous works" (Chicago Tribune).
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