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Choosing to Be Chosen: From Being an Atheist Non-Jew to Becoming an Orthodox Jew

by Kylie Ora Lobell

A personal path toward Orthodox Judaism

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A personal path toward Orthodox Judaism

Kylie Ora Lobell’s memoir traces a shift from a secular Christian upbringing and teenage atheism toward a commitment to Orthodox Judaism. A chance introduction to Shabbat dinners becomes the starting point for her spiritual search and decision to pursue conversion with an Orthodox rabbi. That choice also creates tension in her relationship with Danny, the Jewish comedian who introduced her to the Friday-night gathering and who opposes her decision. The book brings together questions of faith, belonging, and personal conviction with the practical and relational challenges of conversion.

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  • Readers interested in personal accounts of religious conversion and spiritual change.
  • Readers seeking memoirs about Orthodox Judaism, Shabbat, and Jewish practice.
  • Readers interested in how faith commitments can affect intimate relationships.

Themes

Religious conversionFaith and doubtOrthodox Judaism and ShabbatPersonal conviction and relationships

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Book overview

Choosing to Be Chosen is journalist Kylie Ora Lobell's journey from a broken, secular Christian home, to teenage atheism, to a chance encounter with a lapsed Jewish stand-up comedian--culminating in a spiritual quest for conversion to Orthodox Judaism.

Kylie Ora Lobell grew up in a typical American home: religiously lukewarm, where they only went to church on Christmas and Easter. Though she believed in God when she was a child, after her parents' divorce and her grandmother's untimely death, twelve-year-old Kylie lost her faith. She began experiencing depression and anxiety, and constantly asked herself, "What am I living for?"

In college, she meets Danny, a stand-up comedian who is Jewish but gave up practicing Orthodox Judaism after some negative experiences. The one event he still attends is Shabbat for Friday night dinner, and once they start dating, Kylie comes along. Sitting at the Shabbat table, Kylie has an epiphany: This warm feeling in her chest is none other than God. God is real, and she wants to convert to Judaism with the help of an Orthodox rabbi. But Danny vehemently rejects her decision to pursue an Orthodox Jewish conversion, which threatens the future of their relationship. Despite the many challenges--including potentially losing the love of her life--Kylie knows she must move forward. In Choosing to be Chosen, she details the spiritual journey she must take to become the person she was meant to be all along.
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