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Before I Forget

by Anne Pauly

Grief and a complicated inheritance

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Grief and a complicated inheritance

Following Jean-Pierre’s death, Anne’s practical tasks—sorting his belongings and arranging the funeral—bring her into contact with the many, conflicting versions of her father. His intellectual and romantic habits sit alongside the violence and alcoholism that shaped family life. As Anne grieves, she also confronts an unsettling resemblance between herself and the man she had spent years trying to escape. The novel frames bereavement not as a simple act of remembrance, but as an encounter with love, harm, and the parts of a parent that may live on in a child.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in family relationships shaped by alcoholism and violence
  • Readers seeking fiction about grief and complicated parental bonds
  • Readers drawn to stories about identity and resemblance across generations

Themes

Grief and bereavementParental complexityAlcoholism and family violenceInheritance and identity

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Book overview

An offbeat novel for anyone who's ever loved a monster.

 

When Anne's father dies, she is left grieving a contradiction. Jean-Pierre was a man of many faces: the self-taught philosopher born into poverty; the Buddhist who marked his favorite haikus with maple leaves; the old romantic who ended every evening kissing a pixelated portrait of his late wife; and the violent bully, whose alcoholism marked his family's life in terrible ways.

 

Sorting through his belongings and making funeral preparations, Anne tries to come to terms with who and what she's lost. And what's more, she can't help but recognize herself in the father she spent so much of her life running from.

 

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