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Ahead of All Parting: On Learning to Live with an Open Heart

by Barry Michels

A memoir of meaning in the face of mortality

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AlbakiReads Editorial

A memoir of meaning in the face of mortality

Barry Michels recounts the shift from a demanding career as a psychotherapist to life with a diagnosis of Lewy body dementia, the same illness that had taken his father’s life. His account traces how he responded to that news through writing, long hikes, and conversations with friends and patients. The memoir connects vulnerability and community with changes in his creative and spiritual life, including a turn toward poetry and an embrace of the divine after a lifelong atheism. Its central question is how to keep engaging with love, purpose, and beauty when illness brings the future into sharper focus.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Adults interested in personal memoirs about living with a serious illness and mortality.
  • Readers seeking reflections on meaning, relationships, creativity, and spirituality.
  • Readers interested in the personal story of a psychotherapist and coauthor of The Tools.

Themes

Mortality and illnessMeaning and purposeVulnerability and communityCreativity and spirituality

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Book overview

"This book is a reminder that even when life changes course, meaning, purpose, and joy can still be found along the way."--Michael J. Fox

A short, inspirational memoir about unleashing life in the face of death, by the coauthor of the influential New York Times bestseller The Tools.

 

"Nothing short of a gift to those seeking growth."--Drew Barrymore

 

At the peak of his career, Barry Michels was a psychotherapist who treated Hollywood's creative and power elite. Along with his colleague Phil Stutz, he went on to write The Tools, a buzzy New York Times bestseller. Michels was driven, a type A personality who found his work tremendously rewarding. And then he was blindsided by a diagnosis of Lewy body dementia, a degenerative disease that would, in a matter of years, erode his physical and intellectual abilities. The same illness that had taken his father's life would take his own.

At first, he was plunged into an abyss of despair, finding respite only in his practice and on long, defiant hikes. And then Stutz gave him life-changing advice: He told Michels to walk the karmic path before him, to write in order to find meaning, and to fight like hell. He challenged him to transform pain into purpose and claim inner freedom.

In the weeks and months that followed, Michels reached out to friends and patients about his diagnosis. And in this process of making himself vulnerable, he activated community. In his persistence, he found inspiration, even joy. His heart opened, his relationships grew deeper, his creativity was unleashed. He connected with his Life Force. He began writing poetry--an unstoppable outpouring from his soul. His capacity to love was unfettered. Beauty--in nature, in a piece of music or art--could move him to tears. And most surprising of all, this lifelong atheist embraced the divine.

Ahead of All Parting is the inspiring story of Michels's spiritual, emotional, and creative transformation. It offers lessons on living a more meaningful life, written with the exquisite clarity conferred as the end comes into focus.

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