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At 30, I Realized I Had No Gender

by Shou Arai

A personal account of gender and aging

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    Reviewer Rebecca Silverman praises the book as an open, frank, and honest discussion that stays with the reader,...

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A personal account of gender and aging

Shou Arai’s autobiographical manga begins with a realization at 30: he has no gender. From there, it connects that personal discovery to the everyday consequences of living in a society organized around two genders. The book also explores Japanese cultural contexts for gender, transgender issues, and experiences of gender minorities and the LGBTQIA+ community. Its subject matter brings questions of identity and aging into conversation with practical social obstacles, while the publisher describes its approach as lighthearted and comedic.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Teens and young adults interested in LGBTQIA+ biography and autobiography
  • Readers exploring nonbinary identity, transgender issues, or gender and aging
  • Readers interested in Japanese cultural perspectives on gender

Themes

Gender identityAgingJapanese cultureLGBTQIA+ experiencesSocial gender divisions

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Book overview

At age 30, Shou Arai (he/him) came to a realization; he had no gender. Now he was faced with a question he'd never really considered: how to age in a society where everything is so strongly segregated between two genders? This autobiographical manga explores Japanese culture surrounding gender, transgender issues, and the day to day obstacles faced by gender minorities and members of the LGBTQIA+ community with a lighthearted, comedic attitude.

"Arai's English-language debut At 30, I Realized I Had No Gender isn't his first autobiographical manga, but it is something of a rarity in terms of what we tend to get in translation: it's about aging as a queer person and being comfortable with the changes that come along with it. [...] At 30, I Realized I Had No Gender is the open, frank, and honest discussion that sticks with you. If you're looking for a book that doesn't hold back and just speaks its mind about its creator's experiences as a human being, definitely pick this up." -- Rebecca Silverman, Anime News Network

"I had not really thought about cultural differences when it comes to non-binary / trans / intersex individuals in other countries besides the US. However, the same issues of language persist no matter where you live or culture you are from. [...] I liked this manga overall for the honesty and frankness, even in the smallest detail, like when Shou gives advice to a female-to-male individual who wants to know how to grow or present a better-looking beard. Something for truly everyone along the gender and sexuality spectrum." -- Patti Martinson, Sequential Tart
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