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For Richer or Poorer: Keeping Your Marriage Happy When She's Making More Money

by Harriet Pappenheim

Marriage, money, and changing household roles

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Marriage, money, and changing household roles

For Richer or Poorer examines the pressures that can emerge when a wife earns more than her husband, drawing on interviews with more than one hundred women and men. Harriet Pappenheim and Ginny Graves organize the discussion around the practical negotiations behind that shift: division of housework, job loss or career changes, financial decisions, intimacy, communication, and conversations with children about evolving family patterns. The book treats income disparity not as an isolated budgeting issue but as a change that can affect expectations, identity, and power within a marriage. Its emphasis is on identifying recurring points of conflict and presenting ways couples can address them together.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Married couples navigating a wife’s higher income
  • Partners working through household labor and financial-decision tensions
  • Adults interested in changing gender roles within marriage

Themes

Marriage and long-term relationshipsBreadwinning and gender rolesHousehold laborFinancial communicationCareer change and job loss

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Book overview

Millions of married women who work now outearn their husbands--35 percent . . . and rising! Yet deeply ingrained personal and societal attitudes have failed to keep pace with these dramatic changes, putting a serious strain on many relationships. Now, experienced couples therapist Harriet Pappenheim and award-winning journalist Ginny Graves offer insights gleaned from interviews with more than one hundred women and men (conducted specially for this book) and present solutions to the unexpected conflicts engendered by this new family dynamic, addressing such critical topics as:

  • Why working women still do more housework than their husbands—even when their husbands stay at home
  • Coping with the challenges to marital stability when the husband is laid off, changes careers, or chooses to leave the workforce
  • How to keep a relationship romantically alive and sexually active when the wife has the bigger paycheck
  • Navigating tricky financial decision-making when she is the primary breadwinner
  • Helping your children prepare for new family patterns in the years ahead
  • How to communicate with your spouse about these supercharged issues
  • And many more!

Provocative, empowering, and practical, For Richer or Poorer is a blueprint for marital success for couples at the forefront of this silent—and paradigm-shattering—revolution.

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