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My Beloved Other: A Memoir of Love, Race, and Optimism in a Time of Denial

by Nick Abadzis

An interracial marriage as a lens on race and belonging

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An interracial marriage as a lens on race and belonging

Nick Abadzis and psychotherapist Angela Watson use their nearly forty-year relationship to examine how racism shapes private life and public systems. The memoir brings together family histories and experiences in Britain and America, tracing a range of anti-Black racism—from childhood taunts to workplace bias. Its personal account is paired with broader questions about how fear of difference is formed, whose interests it serves, and how social divisions are maintained. The book also makes hope for a more equitable future part of its inquiry, presenting difference as a possible basis for unity rather than division.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in graphic memoirs centered on relationships and family history
  • Readers exploring interracial relationships and experiences of anti-Black racism
  • Readers interested in questions of social division, equity, and belonging

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Interracial marriageAnti-Black racismFamily historySocial division and belongingHope and equity

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Book overview

A timely graphic memoir about the far-reaching impact of racism in today's society, as seen through the lens of one couple's interracial marriage.

Where does the concept of "the other" come from? And who truly benefits when we allow fear of the other to steer our society? Through charming banter and illuminating anecdotes from their personal lives, writer-artist Nick Abadzis and psychotherapist Angela Watson chronicle their nearly forty-year interracial relationship, their respective family histories, and their ongoing experiences with anti-Black racism in Britain and America, from the overt racial taunts of childhood bullies to the more subtle biases of the adult workplace.

In the midst of a dangerous political backlash that threatens to derail decades--if not centuries--of movement towards a more equitable and diverse world, My Beloved Other puts questions of race front and center, and turns a critical eye to the systems that seek to exploit our differences. Above all else, it challenges readers to do what can sometimes feel impossible: keep hope alive for a future where difference is embraced as a source of unity, not division.

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