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Kids, Parents, and Power Struggles: Winning for a Lifetime

by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka

A practical framework for defusing everyday family conflicts

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A practical framework for defusing everyday family conflicts

Mary Sheedy Kurcinka examines recurring parent-child standoffs around routines, chores, homework, and transitions, treating them as situations that can be understood rather than simply won. The book centers on recognizing the emotions, needs, and trigger situations that fuel conflict for both parent and child. Its guidance connects discipline with skills children can practice over time: calming themselves, communicating assertively without aggression, solving problems, and cooperating with others. By focusing on intensity and triggers alongside behavior, the book presents power struggles as a family-dynamics issue rather than a series of isolated misbehaviors.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Parents navigating repeated conflicts around bedtime, mornings, chores, or homework
  • Caregivers seeking discipline approaches that address emotions and behavior together
  • Families interested in helping children build self-regulation and problem-solving skills

Themes

Parent-child conflictDisciplineEmotional regulationTriggers and behaviorCooperation

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Book overview

From the author of Raising
Your Spirited Child
, the award-winning bestseller that has helped millions,
a pioneering, research-based guide to help parents end power struggles and begin
connecting with their child.



Does bedtime mean struggle
time, with your child negotiating for "just another ten minutes"
every single night? Do most school mornings end with your child in tears? Does
your child ignore your repeated requests to get up and do their chores and
homework?


 

Every family experiences
power struggles, but these daily tugs of war are not inevitable. Beloved
parenting expert Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, Ed.D. addresses the everyday challenges
of disciplining children, while understanding the issues behind their behavior.
In Kids, Parents, and Power Struggles, Dr. Mary offers unique
approaches to solving the daily, and often draining, power struggles between
you and your children. She views these conflicts as rich opportunities to teach
your children essential life skills such as how
to calm themselves, to be assertive rather than aggressive, to solve problems,
and to work cooperatively with you and others.


 

In this book, you will find successful strategies for:


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Understanding emotions


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Managing intensity


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Identifying triggers


 

With Dr. Mary's effective guidance, you'll be able
to identify the trigger situations that set off the struggles and get to the
root of the emotions and needs of you and your child.

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