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An Inconvenient Widow: The Torment, Trial, and Triumph of Mary Todd Lincoln

by Lois Romano

Mary Todd Lincoln amid politics, loss, and public judgment

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Mary Todd Lincoln amid politics, loss, and public judgment

Lois Romano’s biography places Mary Todd Lincoln’s political ambitions and public role within the constraints imposed on women of her era. It follows her from a politically connected Kentucky upbringing through the Civil War years, when she supported the Union effort and aided soldiers and formerly enslaved people, to the upheaval of widowhood after Abraham Lincoln’s assassination. The book also examines how grief, behavior, and personal difficulties shaped public judgments of Mary, and how accounts by influential contemporaries contributed to her historical reputation. Drawing on archives, letters, and memoirs, Romano presents a life in which political involvement and private adversity remain closely intertwined.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Readers interested in First Ladies and U.S. political history
  • Readers seeking a biography centered on a woman’s life during the Civil War era
  • Readers interested in how historical reputations are shaped by contemporary accounts

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Women and political powerCivil War and Union supportGrief and widowhoodPublic reputation and historical memory

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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

A revelatory new biography of one of the most misunderstood and vilified First Ladies in American history: Mary Todd Lincoln.

Mary Lincoln was at the center of politics at a time when society's expectations for women were rigid and circumscribed. The product of Southern aristocracy, she grew up among an influential clan of politicians and elites who founded Lexington, Kentucky. Mary's early exposure to the male-dominated world of politics instilled in her a keen political acumen and a fierce ambition. Proclaiming as a child that she was destined to become the wife of a president, she played a crucial role in boosting her husband to greatness.

But her hopes for a triumphant experience at the pinnacle of power were lost to the Civil War and unfathomable family tragedies. Still, Mary persevered. She steadfastly supported the Union war effort, visited encampments, tended to wounded soldiers, and generously donated money and gifts to refugees from slavery. She was an unconventional, larger-than-life character who dressed too ostentatiously, grieved too publicly, suffered a shopping addiction, and seemed unable or unwilling to corral her emotions, her temper, and her opinions. She made enemies--influential men who wrote her story for her, often unfairly. After Lincoln was assassinated, she was all but abandoned by the nation he had given his life to defend and preserve.

Former Washington Post writer and columnist Lois Romano rectifies the tortured legacy of Mary Todd Lincoln, who was failed at nearly every turn in her widowhood--by her family, by her government, by medical professionals ill-equipped to diagnose her mental illness, and finally, by history. Romano draws on hundreds of archives, letters, and memoirs to provide the most complete portrait--of not simply of an inconvenient widow, but of a brilliant and flawed woman, who possessed uncommon tenacity in the face of extraordinary adversity and personal torment, and helped launch one of America's greatest presidents.
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