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  • Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve by Ian Kerner book cover
  • Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve by Ian Kerner book cover
  • Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve by Ian Kerner book cover
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Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve

by Ian Kerner

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A relationship guide about raising standards in modern dating

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A relationship guide about raising standards in modern dating

Ian Kerner addresses casual sex, hookups, stalled relationships, and the pressure that can keep women dating partners they do not genuinely want. Framed as advice from a sex therapist, the book examines the gap between settling for available attention and pursuing a relationship that offers both sexual and emotional satisfaction. Its central argument is that women can interrupt patterns of disappointing dating by reassessing their standards, choices, and expectations around sex and love. The focus stays on practical change within the dating landscape described by the book, rather than treating a relationship status as an end in itself.

Good fit for readers who enjoy

  • Women navigating hookups, casual dating, or relationships that feel directionless
  • Readers seeking relationship advice centered on standards, sex, and dating choices
  • Those interested in a sex therapist's perspective on finding a more satisfying partnership

Themes

Dating standardsHookup cultureSex and relationshipsSelf-worthRomantic expectations

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Book overview

Avoid the booty call blues and get the love--and sex---you deserve!

You're not that into him, but . . . You slept with him anyway - You're dating him in the meantime - All your friends are getting married - There are no good men left

Stop lowering your standards and start reaching for love!

The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). In this smash national bestseller, Dr. Ian Kerner, sex therapist, explores the battlefield of sex, hookups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill--arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love--with a great guy who is into you.

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